Coming Together Through

Somatic Inquiry and Practice


What if you could grow closer to your partner without losing yourself along the way?

What if you could stay deeply connected without abandoning your own truth, your needs, or your individuality?

Relationships have the potential to be vibrant sanctuaries of deep intimacy, play, safety, and mutual evolution. Yet, so often, the friction we feel in partnership comes from old protective habits, hidden expectations, and inherited ideas about how love is "supposed" to look.

Real relational transformation doesn't happen by trying to fix each other in the heat of a moment. It happens when we cultivate self-intimacy and personal expression right alongside secure attachment and playful depth. When both partners feel rooted in their own skin, the relationship becomes a playground of connection rather than a tug-of-war for safety.


The Power of Blending Couples

& Individual Sessions

True closeness requires two whole, present individuals. That is why this work weaves together both shared couples sessions and dedicated individual time for each partner.

  • Together in Couples Sessions: We slow down, address recurring dynamics, build clear communication, and rediscover playfulness and depth in real time.

  • Solo in Individual Sessions: Each partner gets a dedicated, safe space to explore their own personal edges, process triggers, and strengthen self-awareness without feeling the need to caretake or perform for their partner.

Bringing individual work into a relationship coaching journey accelerates growth dramatically—because when you bring a more grounded, self-aware version of yourself to the couple's space, the dynamic naturally shifts.

(Looking to explore dedicated 1-on-1 coaching on your own? Learn more about Individual Sessions here to begin your solo journey.)


Why a Package? Commitment as a Catalyst for Change

Relational patterns take time to form, and they take dedicated space to gently unravel and rewrite.

Real, sustainable change rarely happens overnight or through sporadic, ad-hoc check-ins.

Opting for a package isn't just about financial savings—it is about creating a sacred, reliable act of commitment. Committing to a consistent rhythm over time gives both you and your partner the safety, accountability, and continuity required to explore and change old patterns and embody new ways of relating.

Every package includes 2 individual sessions (one for each partner) and 2 couples sessions every month, giving you continuous support every single week.


Coaching Package Options

3-Month Relationship Foundations

A focused, immersive container to interrupt frustrating cycles, establish healthy communication, and build a strong foundation of trust.

  • Monthly Rate: $800 / month

  • Total Investment: $2,400 (Save $420 compared to single sessions)

  • Includes: 2 Couples Sessions + 2 Individual Sessions per month for 3 months

6-Month Relational Expansion (Most Popular)

Designed for couples ready to go deeper—transforming core relationship dynamics, reviving playfulness and passion, and building lasting emotional security.

  • Monthly Rate: $750 / month

  • Total Investment: $4,500 (Save $1,140 compared to single sessions)

  • Includes: 2 Couples Sessions + 2 Individual Sessions per month for 6 months

1-Year Relational Mastery & Integration

A complete, year-long journey of deep transformation. Together, we navigate all seasons of your relationship, building profound self-intimacy, effortless communication, and enduring partnership.

  • Monthly Rate: $700 / month

  • Total Investment: $8,400 for twelve months of relationship guidance and support (Save $2,880 compared to single sessions)

  • Includes: 2 Couples Sessions + 2 Individual Sessions per month for 12 months

Email to inquire about purchasing a package at

Rachel.becomingthemself@gmail.com


TESTIMONIAL

When Jessica and Lauren came to coaching, they shared a deep love as a married queer couple. Yet past challenges and unaddressed resentments had made it difficult to feel emotionally safe enough to explore their sexual desires together.

With Rachel’s guidance, they began building the foundations of safety through empathy, attunement, vulnerability, and meaningful repair. As they learned to navigate old hurts and communicate with greater compassion, the distance between them began to soften.

Over time, they discovered that emotional intimacy wasn't a restriction—it was the foundation for greater sexual freedom.

By building a deeper sense of safety and trust, Jessica and Lauren found new freedom to explore their desires and hold each other more fully than they ever thought possible.

Building Safety, Finding Freedom


Embodied Relating for Couples

Shed the cultural scripts and return to the pulse of your partnership. Refine how you connect, play, and create more space for one another--transforming your relationship from a set of roles into a source of vitality.